Our daughter just completed her first year of college.
She is double majoring in Political Science and International Relations so we've spent hours talking about world events and Washington DC politics. But a recent conversation, sparked by a psychology class, fascinated me; the difference between being nice and being kind.
According to Merriam-Webster's online definitions- Kindness is the quality of state of being gentle and considerate. Nice means being pleasant and agreeable.
- a coworker aggressively expresses his/her political opinions
- your daughter or son yells that you never listen and you don't understand
- your dog chews your expensive leather shoes
- your friend drinks too much at a party, makes a fool of himself and you have to get him home
Practicing kindness, especially when it's a challenge, strengthens the habit. A kind person is loving and giving and acting out of the goodness of their heart.
Being nice is good at times but if you're too nice, it could be a sign of insecurity or needing approval from others.
Have you ever been around someone who was nice but you just felt like you couldn't quite trust them?
Whereas when someone is kind it feels genuine and honest.
Trust your gut and remember the golden rule!